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Rabbi Yirmiyahu Katz

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Are you feeling alone and burnt out in your marriage relationship?

Is the current state of your sholom bayis leaving you lost and confused?

Wish you could swap the tension for better communication with your spouse?

We get your frustration and we’re here to help.

ABOUT

Turning Tension To Tranquility

For some time, a group of askonim have noticed that sholom bayis cases in the Crown Heights community were not dealt with effectively. Many couples were left struggling, either moving along miserably – their little ones privy to the discord – or the family sadly dissolved.

Some tried traditional therapy, successfully so, but for others, it wasn’t the solution. Either…

It put too much pressure on one spouse, making them feel blamed – and thus more resistant to change.

The professional setting lacked the personal touch, making it an uncomfortable experience.

It was costly, and cash-strapped couples could not afford to continue the ongoing sessions.

The System Needed Something New.

🗹 Something impactful.
🗹 Something affordable.
🗹 Something that could be a couple’s first – but, above all, last – stop.

WHO WE ARE

The Right Approach For

Real Change

Bayis Neman takes a unique approach to sholom bayis. Our team of madrichim is trained by world-renowned expert Rabbi Yirmiyahu Katz of New York, whose methodology is rooted in the Torah.

We recognize that no two people — or marriages — are the same. In fact, individuals evolve over time, and so do their challenges. That’s why we don’t believe in one-size-fits-all solutions. While conventional practice often relies on rigid, predefined techniques, our madrichim draw on Torah sources, chassidus, deep Jewish wisdom, and siyatta dishmaya to guide couples in a way that meets them where they are.

They listen closely, explore the underlying issues, and craft a personalized approach suited to each couple’s set of circumstances. If needed, they adjust strategies mid-course, responding to progress in real time rather than being bound to a fixed protocol.

And most importantly, their goal is not to keep you dependent—it’s to help you move forward. With Hashem’s help, our madrichim aim to guide you toward resolution and harmony within weeks, so you can ‘graduate’ from their support and embrace a renewed, joyful marriage.

CLIENT TESTIMONIALS

He helped us in such a short time.

Seven years into my marriage, I thought I was in the depths. We’d already
spent years and tens of thousands of dollars on therapy and it took a toll on our
financial situation. Hashem must have heard my prayers and had mercy on
us, because somehow I was directed to Rabbi Katz. I am still in disbelief at
how much he helped us in such a short amount of time. To say thank you
doesn’t really justify what I want to say, but thank you anyways.

Saved us many times during a crisis…

Bayis Neeman is a special organization. The fact that their service was
subsidized for us took an enormous pressure off. Also their availability on
short notice saved us many times during a crisis. If I had to wait for an
appointment a few days later, as often happens with therapists, I don’t think we
would be in the same place today.

We felt treated as people…not as clients with some diagnosis.

I had no voice in our relationship. I felt very burnt out. When I tried to put my
foot down in different areas the result was a temper tantrum from my spouse.
Sometimes they were scary, even violent. I longed to be able to communicate
like mature adults when we had disagreements, or if I was hurting.
We pursued marriage therapy, but my husband was not really enthusiastic.
Someone recommended Bayis Neeman. My husband was much more willing to
listen to a Rov than a therapist. He put zero pressure on any of us, just shared
his wisdom, listening ear and patience! They really want you to succeed and be
happy.
Bayis Neeman is also a much more personal, Torah-based approach. We felt
treated as people, not as clients with some diagnosis….which unfortunately
therapists were very quick to pin on my husband.

This is all thanks to Rabbi Katz and his wonderful team…

When I sit at our Shabbos table and see my children smiling (and arguing:), I tell
myself, Hashem, this is all thanks to Rabbi Katz and his wonderful team. If
these children are sitting at a table with both parents, it’s to their credit, and the
incredible Siyata Dishmaya they have. May Hashem repay you tenfold and give
you strength to continue your wonderful work.

Their dedication was nothing short of amazing.

Before discovering Bayis Neeman, I’d walk on eggshells, feeling very very alone
in our relationship, running a home with young children, in addition to a moody
spouse. Now I b’’H feel much more relaxed, I feel heard and understood. The
children are happier and relaxed, we tackle our struggles together and we don’t
spend our days blaming one another. Bayis Neeman’s dedication was nothing
short of amazing.

Process

Get Help In 1,2,3

Call our confidential line
anonymously to register* and be matched with a suitable madrich.

The suitable madrich will reach out to schedule your initial zoom or in-person consultation.

Meet the madrich frequently as needed, for guidance and support, and watch your marriage take shape bez’’H.

Reach out today

* Intake call is anonymous

RESOURCES

Insights And Inspirations

A Blueprint for Couples with Varying Observances

3 min read

Peace at
Home

6 min read

Finding the Good in
Your Spouse

4 min read

TEAM

Our Madrichim

Rabbi Yirmiyahu Katz

Rosh Madrichim, is a distinguished rabbinical authority, widely respected for his expertise in sholom bayis and mikvaos. He has provided invaluable guidance to hundreds of couples, helping them build stronger marriages with remarkable success.

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His compassionate approach and deep understanding have led to remarkable success in fostering harmonious relationships.

A prolific author, Rabbi Katz has written numerous seforim on Torah, Jewish festivals, avodas Hashem, and halacha, enriching the Jewish literary landscape. His expertise in mikvaos has also made him a sought-after consultant for communities worldwide, ensuring the highest halachic standards.

Through his teachings, writings, and personal guidance, Rabbi Katz has had a profound and lasting impact on individuals, families, and communities across the globe.

Rabbi Shaya Shagalov

Graduated from a yeshiva education, followed by his current shluchos on Rutgers University Campus, where he has been the go-to point of support for over 15 years. Many of those students came back to him as young marrieds, needing help for floundering marriages.

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Having spent a lot of time under the tutelage of Rabbi Yirmiyahu Katz, of New York, R’ Shaya is trained and skilled to provide this much-needed chizuk to his former students, as they embark on their futures, as well as to new couples who come his way through Bayis Neman. 

Rabbi Meir New

Graduated from a yeshiva education, delving into Chabad chassidus, which emphasizes deep compassion and understanding. With over a decade of experience as a mental health advocate and personal mentor, he has helped countless individuals get to the root of their struggles and connect with the right resources.

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His approach blends firsthand experiential knowledge and a keen ability to recognize underlying causes of personal challenges, to empower individuals to achieve lasting change.

Mrs. Sarale (Sara) Rabiski

Is a veteran kallah teacher in Toronto, Ontario, with years of experience guiding Jewish kallos in preparing for marriage.

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As an educator, mentor and mikvah attendant, she has helped countless women navigate the transition into married life, teaching them the values of love, respect, and family purity.

Mrs. Itty Chazan

Is a marriage guidance expert dedicated to enhancing Sholom Bayis. She utilizes a solution-oriented approach, empowering couples to implement simple, practical steps to improve their relationship.
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Her guidance is exclusively rooted in Torah sources, a direct reflection of her extensive background, including a Beis Rivka education, Shlichus in Brazil, and experience as a program coordinator, teacher, and camp director.
Mrs. Chazan helps couples navigate their lives together by building a strong foundation of honest communication, safe social skills, warmth, respect, and healthy attitudes. All guidance is provided with the utmost privacy, ensuring a comfortable and secure environment for every couple.

THE BAYIS NEMAN ADVANTAGE

Our Commitment To You

Availability

We understand how time can be of essence when your sholom bayis is fragile. We don’t have booking calendars or waitlists. Our madrichim will avail themselves as a matter of priority.

Confidentiality

Our ultra-personal and caring service maintains the highest level of confidentiality. The only person who knows you’re here is the madrich you’re sitting with – not the secretary, nor the Rabbinic authority who leads us .

dedication

As a non-profit, we have no invested interest here other than the happiness of your marriage. Because of this setup, we remain staunchly dedicated and follow up consistently to make sure we have achieved your goals.

Affordability

Everyone deserves happiness, regardless if they can afford the right guidance. For those with financial difficulties, we can offer subsidized sessions, giving you the ability to focus on your sholom bayis, without added pressure.

Contact

We’re Here For You

Please don’t hesitate to reach out for help. Our mission is to help you improve your sholom bayis. Feel free to call anonymously. Only the madrich assigned to you will know your identity, 100% confidentiality assured.

You can reach us on:

P: 718-316-6090 (Call or text)